The title says it all ,the book is all about understanding Man's world.. :) ,a good guide for woman ( i may say, Steve's book is a knight in shining armor for those who are looking for help in relationships ) ,But. this book is good for those too who are in mid-of-relationship and can not figure out what is going wrong with them. Though, i do not fully agree with all of Steve's notes and tips ( somewhere i totally find it offending for we all females..) but, all in all a good read to understand/clear few misconceptions about your partner's world.
The big tip i got from this book is that "stop asking other woman for help on relationship issues", especially those woman who are in relationship. Just talk to your partner. Coz, after all, Man's world is different than woman's. Woman's world is soft, fragile.But, Man's world is harsh, he have to prove himself for every minute in some way or other. For woman, Socially ,it is not mandatory to prove herself :) .. If a woman is not doing anything to earn her bread and butter then no-body will care about. but, if a man is not doing anything then, everyone taunts him for his inability. This is fact.
According to steve, Man's love is different than woman's love. Her love is deep like oceans and high like mountains but his love is more rough yet caring. Man is always taught to profess,protect and provide everything to his lady and a woman makes him important by allowing him to give her those Golden Ps (stated above). Steve states all about keeping relationships with man, how not to loose your man, how to make him want you, what all general mistakes woman do in relationship, how men evaluate any woman when they first see her. Everything.
Another thought i liked is that, Steve suggests to woman that not to give blueprint of her likes ,favourites to her partner.coz, certainly, he will give her what she likes, but surely will not give his inputs,innovatives thoughts .Let him research, dig out your favourite and then see wonder in your relationship.
Few more tips ( from him ,not from me :P ) :
1) Dont open a conversation with words "we need to talk" ... :) Steve says, it opens up guards of men. They go into defending position rather than conversing mode which is what woman wants at that moment :)
2) Form a two handed circle...Dont let ANYBODY come in between two of you.. nice thought.. not ur friends too nor his friends too
3) Men hate gossips.. :) :) :) :)
These are just excerpts from book. You must read book if you are further interested.. :)
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